When your partner isn’t black; he’s O.J.

Having a "woke" partner is a necessity. At least for me it is. For starters, let's address my first issue: I truly dislike the word "woke." People who claim to be "woke" aren't really "woke." If you were smart enough, you wouldn't have to announce it to the world. It's as if you're trying to …

Black women ripping the runway — and your exotic fetish

This season, I had the opportunity to work on a couple of fashion shows for New York Fashion Week. (Shoutout to the guy I dated who never thought that I could be in the fashion industry.) Apart from the tedious tasks of making sure that the clothing was in pristine condition with no loose threads, …

Embracing the swirl: Interracial dating

Let's just address the elephant in the room: interracial dating. It's something, I'm sure, we've all either thought about or participated in ourselves. And typically I do not like to address harder issues in this lifestyle blog and prefer to stay on the lighter side of things, but it's something that is definitely relevant in …